Thursday, February 2, 2017

Influence everywhere and at all times week 5






1 Timothy 4:12 NLT "Don't let anyone think less of you because you are young. Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity."

1.      We are living influencers.
1.      The word example means for one to be imitated.
1.      The Greek means "to mimic," to behave in such a way that another can copy it exactly.
1.      Paul constantly told his disciples be imitators of me.

1 Corinthians 4:16 NLT "So I urge you to imitate me."

1 Corinthians 11:1 NLT "And you should imitate me, just as I imitate Christ."

2.      That's one bold Christ Follower.
1.      Or had Christ just done that much work in his life that he feels confident enough to speak those kinds of statements?
1.      He walked close with God, spent time in God's word, in prayer, and was aware of God's presence in his life at all times, that's how he could make this kind of statement.
2.      Modeling an exemplary lifestyle is the essence of discipleship.
1.      When you strive to make yourself an example, you are preparing for multiplication.
1.      Although only Christ is perfect, you should be able to say, "Follow me as I follow Christ."
2.      Your example to your family, your business, your community, and even your enemies makes you a leader.
2.      You have a realm of influence, regardless of what you do for a living or what title you possess or don't, and in that realm people are watching to see if your actions match your words.
1.      Your influence is important.
3.      Perhaps greater than any other time in history, we live in a world that is desperately crying out for help.
1.      It's a world where more than 1 million people live on less than one dollar a day.
2.      A world where disease, and unknown outbreak are taking the lives of young and old alike at an alarming rate.
3.      A world where nearly 16,000 children die daily from hunger related causes, that's 1 child every 5 seconds.
4.      Tk and I are passionate about missions, locally and globally and we have made a decision that we're going to help as many people as we can to relieve as much human suffering as we can with the time and resources we are given.
1.      That's the life of a Christ follower.
1.      We use the term missions quite a bit but this word is never actually mentioned in the Bible.
1.      Missions comes from the medieval Latin word meaning a "task assigned; an act of sending."
2.      And this is exactly what Jesus did before His ascension into heaven.
1.      One of His last instructions to His disciples was:
Mark 16:15 NLT "Go into all the world and preach the Good News to everyone."

5.      We call this the "Great Commission."
1.      Not the great concern, not the great suggestion, and hopefully it's not the greatest ignored statement in the Bible.
1.      This command isn't just for these disciples or for the early church it is for all those who would ever know Christ and accept Him as their Savior.
2.      We, the church, have been given an incredible assignment.
2.      Our assignment is the task of evangelizing the world!
1.      That is done through words, and that is done through actions.
1.      Listen, we are Christ's personal representatives and God is literally making His appeal to the world through us.

2 Corinthians 5:18-21 NLT [18] "And all of this is a gift from God, who brought us back to Himself through Christ. And God has given us this task of reconciling (restoring friendly relations between, bringing together) people to Him. [19] For God was in Christ, reconciling the world to Himself, no longer counting people's sins against them. And He gave us this wonderful message of reconciliation. [20] So we are Christ's ambassadors (personal representatives, servants,); God is making His appeal(His serious or urgent request, *as a law term He is trying to get the judgment overturned on our behalf* we were born into sin but Jesus Christ came as the payment for our eternal freedom) through us. We speak for Christ when we plead, "Come back to God!" [21] For God made Christ, who never sinned, to be the offering for our sin, so that we could be made right with God through Christ."

2.      When I read these scriptures, it grips my heart and captivates my soul.
1.      I want to make sure that I'm doing all that I can to fulfill this high calling and take advantage of every opportunity.
3.      I believe each one of us should regularly ask ourselves:
1.      What am I doing to help someone else?
2.      What am I doing to help people find a relationship with God through Jesus Christ?
1.      So the question is, how do we go about modeling the message to all people?
1.      The blood of Jesus Christ and the word of our testimony.

2 Corinthians 3:2-3 NLT [2] "The only letter of recommendation we need is you yourselves. Your lives are a letter written in our hearts; everyone can read it and recognize our good work among you. [3] Clearly, you are a letter from Christ showing the result of our ministry among you. This "letter" is written not with pen and ink, but with the Spirit of the living God. It is carved not on tablets of stone, but on human hearts."

3.      In other words, you and I are meant to be living influencers!
1.      Our attitudes, our actions and how we treat people will always speak louder than anything we'll say.
1.      Many people have faith in Christ but don't want to bother others by sharing this great news.
1.      They keep quiet about this eternity altering, spiritually freeing, God honoring, life shaking message.
4.      Purposely reaching out to others is very important to Tk and I and it is one of the main focuses of the ministry that God has called us to, always has been, always will be.
1.      I stress the word purposely because it is something we must do by choice, we can't wait until we feel like doing it!
1.      Yes, there are occasions when we may feel like giving, we feel like helping others, but many times we don't.
2.      I'm sure that Jesus didn't feel like dying on the cross to pay for our sins, but He did it on purpose.
1.      He decided in the garden of Gethsemane that He would do what Father God was asking Him to do no matter what it cost Him personally.
1.      If it wasn't for His purposeful, difficult decision, we would not have salvation today!
3.      I believe it's so much easier to say, "let's pray for revival" than to actually take action and help start one.
1.      I've seen congregations get together they weep, they worship, they give diligently; believing and praying for revival.
1.      But then when the bus ministry/kids/youth/men's/women's ministry gets fired up and started bringing in the poor, or the homeless from shelters, the struggling from housing projects and people from off the streets, or the broken from their friends lists many of the people who prayed for revival left the church.
1.      They didn't want to sit with those people.
2.      They didn't want those people messing up their church, messing up their traditions, and messing up their relationships.
1.      I may be terribly mistaken but Jesus died for "all people," right?
2.      I believe the global church has preached too much and forgiven too little, shown too little, given too little, served too little and loved to little.
1.      Many people have so much pain in their lives that they can't hear what we say until we help relieve their suffering.
2.      That's why I am firmly convinced that we must go armed and ready to help hurting people.
3.      When we meet people's physical needs it opens the door wide for us to address their spiritual needs.
4.      Perhaps you want to help but don't quite know how to go about it; one of the things we can do is join with someone else who is already established, who is reaching hurting people and reach with them.
1.      You may never have an opportunity to travel to a foreign country yourself, you can help finance the preaching of the gospel by supporting ministries and outreaches that relieve the suffering of those less fortunate.
5.      That's why we give to missions, that why we pray, give, and go.
1.      Making the difference and changing our world.
3.      We are all called.
1.      Called to give, called to send, called to go and called to serve!
1.      I firmly believe that every church and every Christian should be involved in missions locally and globally, helping the poor, needy, lost, broken and confused.
2.      It's a vital part of the Christian lifestyle we are called to live.
3.      As we join together and each of us does all we can, multitudes will be helped and will come to the saving knowledge of God through Christ Jesus.
1.      The Bible has a truckload to say about reaching the lost, the poor, the needy, the hungry, those who are oppressed, the homeless, the widows and the orphans.
1.      As a matter of fact, there are over 2,000 scriptures that give instruction on the matter!
2.      These passages reveal God's heart for the hurting, His passion for their salvation and they have dramatically altered my purpose, my motives, and even my lifestyle.
2.      Though you love God with all of your heart if you're still searching for satisfaction and you feel like something is missing.
1.      Or perhaps you feel unfulfilled wondering if you've missed God's purpose for your life.

Consider this: Isaiah 58:10-11 NLT [10] "Feed the hungry, and help those in trouble. Then your light will shine out from the darkness, and the darkness around you will be as bright as noon. [11] The LORD will guide you continually, giving you water when you are dry and restoring your strength. You will be like a well-watered garden, like an ever-flowing spring."

2.      Absolutely and utterly incredible!
3.      Do you see what God is saying here?
1.      When we make it our business to feed the hungry, help those who are afflicted, those overwhelmed in sin then He will take up our case and fight on our behalf.
1.      We will be completely satisfied and lacking nothing!
2 Corinthians 9:9 NLT "As the Scriptures say, "They share freely and give generously to the poor. Their good deeds will be remembered forever."
2.      And the good we have done will not be forgotten, but it will last into eternity.
1.      That's uncharted influence!
1.      Do you need help in your life?
1.      Then the answer is to reach out and help somebody else.
2.      Are you looking for fulfillment, purpose and direction?
1.      Then look for the lost and help show them the way through Jesus Christ.
4.      Jesus called us to live unselfish, laying down our lives for those around and about us.
1.      Engage in what we were created to do, reach out.
5.      God has not called us to in-reach, but to out-reach!
1.      He has not called us to solve our own problems but the problems of others and as we do, we will find God moving in amazing ways to meet our own needs.
1.      What you make happen for someone else, God will make happen for you.
1.      I encourage you to purposely and aggressively begin helping other people everywhere you go in every way you can.
2.      None of us can do it alone, but together we can reach out, proclaiming to the nations the greatest message ever heard.
1.      Forever, influencing our world. 



Next month we launch a series entitled Love Conquers, be looking for it! 




Friday, January 27, 2017

Your influence matters week 4





1.      All of us are influencing others whether we intend to do so or not.
1.      We can make a difference in the lives of others even before we have sorted out all of our own issues.
2.      Throughout the Scriptures we see examples of men and women who did not feel ready to influence others, but God was able to work through them.
1.      Some of us may have a formal leadership role.
2.      Others of us may be able to reach out to encourage a neighbor going through a difficult time.
3.      Some of us may have children, ours or others, who are looking up to us, noticing how we live our lives and how we respond to what life brings.
1.      How powerful would it be if we lived transformed lives and were known for the good we do in the world?!

Titus 2:11 "For the grace of God has been revealed, bringing salvation to all people. 12 And we are instructed to turn from godless living and sinful pleasures. We should live in this evil world with wisdom, righteousness, and devotion to God, 13 while we look forward with hope to that wonderful day when the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, will be revealed. 14 He gave His life to free us from every kind of sin, to cleanse us, and to make us His very own people, totally committed to doing good deeds. 15 You must teach these things and encourage the believers to do them. You have the authority to correct them when necessary, so don't let anyone disregard what you say."

2.      Live in this evil world with wisdom, righteousness, and devotion to God.
1.      That's influential.
3.      Things the average church member may not realize...
1.      When you are present in church it makes a HUGE difference.
1.      It expresses your desire to grow in Christ.
2.      It expresses your love and care for your church family.
3.      It expresses that you take God's Word seriously about His church, His mission and His command to gather in His name.
2.      When you AREN'T in church it makes a HUGE difference.
1.      It can hinder momentum for the church as a whole.
2.      It can hinder the atmosphere when there are missing pieces (people).
3.      It's discouraging for the pastoral staff, volunteer teams, and other members who have prayed intensely, fasted faithfully, cried out and sacrificed to get a fresh word from God.
4.      It's tough when guests show up and the regulars don't.
1.      It takes us all to minister to the people.
1.      Do you see others around and about you and have a sincere concern about their life and soul?
3.      When we are following Christ closely as a church.
1.      The anointing and presence of the Holy Spirit becomes thick.
2.      Being offended becomes nearly impossible.
3.      The spiritual synergy and vision becomes attainable for we all are serving Christ's purposes.
4.      The Pastor is not only here to marry people and minster to the personal needs of a few but to the needs of many.
1.      Your pastor is the one God sent to preach salvation to you, your family, your friends and your community. 
1.      On mission, strengthening you and empowering you "to do HIS work" of the ministry.

Ephesians 4:11-12 NLT [11] "Now these are the gifts Christ gave to the church: the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, and the pastors and teachers. [12] Their responsibility is to equip God's people to do His work and build up the church, the body of Christ."
2.      Talk about influence, Jesus gave us these people to use to equip us, to do His work, and build up the church.
1.      To build it up, never to tear it down.
2.      Never to tear it down through disunity, disagreement, division and dissension.
1.      To build up, to influence, to build up, to influence. Need a arrow circle PPT
5.      If you lift your pastor's hands everyone wins.

Exodus 17:11 NLT "As long as Moses held up the staff in his hand, the Israelites had the advantage. But whenever he dropped his hand, the Amalekites gained the advantage."

1.      Moses became tired in the battle and two men lifted his hands so the Israelites could prevail.
1.      He was lifting up the staff of God.
2.      Joshua was physically fighting the battle and Moses was fighting the spiritual battle in prayer.
2.      You're confidence in us, your prayers for us, your concern for us, your love for us, your trust can all be felt believe it or not.
1.      And the opposite is true as well.
3.      Your lack of confidence, your lack of prayer, your lack of concern, your lack of love, your lack of trust or interest can be felt and encountered.
2.      God’s word is a filter, which all things in your life need to pass through.
1.      The Bible is the only standard of truth. *IMAGE OF TRUMP swearing in*
1.      We need to pass our lives through this filter.
1.      Our relationships.
2.      Our families.
3.      Our finances.
4.      Our friends.
5.      Our influences.
6.      Our futures and our eternities.
1.      The flow going in directly affects the flow coming out.

Romans 1:25 "They traded the truth about God for a lie. So they worshiped and served the things God created instead of the Creator Himself, who is worthy of eternal praise! Amen."

2.      People tend to believe lies that reinforce their own selfish, personal beliefs.
1.      With TV, music, movies, and the rest of the media often presenting sinful life styles and unwholesome values, we find ourselves constantly bombarded by attitudes and beliefs that are totally opposite to the Bible.
1.      Be careful about what/who influences you for it will form your opinions and beliefs.
1.      Evaluate everything according to the Bible.

Illustrate here: Use poster boards to spell the word: I N F L U E N C E            Need 9 volunteers.

3.      Influence-the capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone or something.
1.      So the origination Middle English and Medieval Latin influentia ‘inflow,’ influere, from in- ‘into’ + fluere ‘to flow.’
1.      Influence is an inflow of things into it.
2.      Then whatever flowed into it will flow right out of it.
1.      Did you notice that right in the middle of the flow in, is "U?"
1.      So whatever you are putting in will flow back out.
1.      I for in then through U out the E.

Proverbs 4:20-27 NLT [20] "My child, pay attention to what I say. Listen carefully to my words. [21] Don't lose sight of them. Let them penetrate deep into your heart, [22] for they bring life to those who find them, and healing to their whole body. [23] Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. [24] Avoid all perverse talk; stay away from corrupt speech. [25] Look straight ahead, and fix your eyes on what lies before you. [26] Mark out a straight path for your feet; stay on the safe path. [27] Don't get sidetracked; keep your feet from following evil."

4.      Influence doesn’t come to us instantaneously.
1.      Nor does influence develop by accident.
2.      Influence grows as we purposefully take action to earn the trust and win the respect of others.
1.      Some of us are more ready than we realize to take the next step to invest in others.
2.      Others of us aren't near as ready as we may think we are.
3.      Your life is influence in motion.
1.      I believe Christ Followers have the responsibility to reach out and passionately search for ways to make others feel welcome and valued.
2.      An influencer connects with people.
1.      Relationships demand large amounts of energy and commitment, we all need that.
3.      An influencer empowers people.
1.      They speak encouraging, uplifting words in order to make others aware of their potential for greatness. 
4.      An influencer reproduces other leaders.
1.      Plows and bulldozers are both useful machines for moving earth, but they operate in very different ways.
2.      A plow turns over the earth, stirs it up, and aerates it so that the soil becomes a good place for seeds to grow.
3.      A bulldozer scrapes up the earth and shoves it aside.
1.      Are you a plow or a bulldozer?
1.      Do you cultivate people in order to maximize their potential for growth, or do you simply push them wherever you need them to go?
4.      As a Christian, you ought to be aware that your ability to positively influence another person is the central component of discipleship.
1.      But how do you measure your influence?
2.      By the number of friends you have?
3.      By the number of people who work for you?
4.      By the number of followers you have on Twitter or number of likes you get on Facebook and Instagram?
5.      Chances are that you’re missing something incredibly potent if you measure influence only in that way.
1.      Because there are dozens of people, perhaps even hundreds, that you influence without ever knowing it.
1.      They help you bag your groceries.
2.      They pick up your trash.
3.      They might deliver your mail, or drive next to you on the road.
4.      They pass you in the halls at your child’s school, or ride the elevator with you on the way to the office.
1.      And these possibly unnoticed individuals are impacted by you in ways you may never know.

J.R. Miller said “There have been *meetings of only a moment which have left impressions for life, for eternity*. No one can understand that mysterious thing we call influence…yet…every one of us continually exerts influence, either to heal, to bless, to leave marks of beauty; or to wound, to hurt, to poison, to stain other lives.”
5.      Have you ever taken time to think about your life in that way?
1.      You impact people on a daily basis by how you choose to live.
2.      When you make it your mission to value people and build them up, you are planting the seeds for a harvest of positive change.
1.      Imagine if you practiced courtesy during rush hour or were grateful to everyone who served you a meal.
2.      Imagine if you held doors, shared credit, and otherwise added value as often as you could, to every person you met.
1.      Your level of influence would be off the charts.
3.      At a time when some only care about those who are “for” them, we need leaders who care about everyone.
1.      We need leaders who make valuing others a priority instead of a promise.
2.      We need leaders who make others better instead of bitter.
4.      In fact the global church needs influencers like you.
1.      You can change the world if you choose to and I believe you will.

Closing Story:

One winter day in Biloxi, Mississippi, a twenty-five-year-old lady decided to kill herself. She couldn’t take it anymore and she wanted her life to be over. She went to a bridge over the Mississippi River.

The water was frigid, and the bridge was high. She climbed over the railing and threw herself over. She hit the water with a terrible smack and started sinking.

Unbeknownst to her, a man on the bank of the river saw her jump. When he did not see her surface, he jumped in to rescue her.

She was sinking deeper when she heard him dive in. And then she started to hear this poor man flailing around. When he had jumped in, he had forgotten that he didn’t know how to swim! This heroic idiot was splashing and screaming, “Help! Help!” so the woman who was trying to kill herself swam to him and pulled him onto the bank. He was choking, so she gave him mouth-to-mouth resuscitation. Somebody called 911, and both of them were taken to the hospital. Both of them survived.

The journalist who wrote the story ended it with these words: “That night, it wasn’t the man who saved her life. It was purpose that saved her life.”

•     She was ready to take her life and die but suddenly purpose was awakened inside of her.
•     Ready to give up but a mission in life called out to her to get back up and do something powerful with her life.

•     Like saving another human being.